Deuteronomy 8:5-6 KJV
Thou shalt also consider in thine heart, that, as a man chasteneth his son, so the Lord thy God chasteneth thee.  Therefore thou shalt keep the commandments of the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways, and to fear him.
Obedience must be, 1. Careful, observe to do; 2. Universal, to do all the commandments; and 3. From a good principle, with a regard to God as the Lord, and their God, and with a holy fear of him. To engage them to this obedience.
The following are quotes from the October 2021 article “ARE YOU COPING OR DEALING WITH LIFE” http://romboughrobert.com/?p=51627.
We are at a junction, which is asking to determine how we are running our lives, careers, and business. What important significance is it to know whether we are Coping or Dealing with Lifes twists and turns?
I am asking the following: is there a difference between Coping and Dealing?
“I say Certainly there is.” But why do the learned and highly developed secularists believe that coping and dealing can be or are one and the same? Romans 1:22
Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
When you analyze the word Coping, you quickly find it is a learnt method of passive submission. Allowing those using this technique to subjectively justify events or occurrences affecting their lives, beliefs, and surroundings. Giving them a modified reason to accept irresponsibility into their being (spirit and soul) and ultimately their physical lives; a method to function unchallenged, no matter what the outcome may hold for them personally and spiritually. They now have created permission to bypass accountability and shut down responsibility.
1 Corinthians 1:20 KJV
Where is the wise? where is the scribe? where is the disputer of this world? hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world?
I believe prayer at this point is appropriate.
PRAYER by Robert
Heavenly Father, as humble children eager to learn we bow before your throne, pledging our spirit to you, Father, as a servant. We call on you Lord to fill us with discernment, so we may use the courage and integrity you have brought as the rock we stand on receiving the truth. We plead for strength to continue facing the truth about ourselves as we face our faults and shortcomings. Bring a wave of peace to our soul that we may go forward through all the turmoil facing our walk. Lift us up, Father, to see your glorious light shining through the darkness surrounding our world and lives. Lift the darkness from around us so we will know your presence at all times. Give us a dedicated spirit to recognize and help those who have fallen into the deception of emptiness and depression. Brighten our light so it might shine through all darkness and sharpen our wisdom that we may cut all the cords emprisoning your fallen children trapped in fear of death. Bring to us the spirit of kinsmanship that we might lay down our lives for those lost and deceived. This we pray in Yeshua’s name Amen and Amen.
What ultimately becomes the standard for Coping, is not taking responsibility for any personal action good or bad. Because you now can justify and rationalize anything and everything in or around your being. For, God is not the author of confusion. but of peace, as in all assemblies of the saints. (1Corinthians 14:33)
In comparison when you analyze Dealing you quickly realize this is not a form of passivity nor acceptance of justifications and rationalizations.
It immediately becomes apparent, that to Deal with a situation, you must first obtain sound and accurate information some of which may not be pleasant, or seriously faced, however, it must be faced, accepted, and resolved before God.
To Deal means to face the circumstance or situation with all the information provided and take that part which it reveals as your involvement, in other words, what you really are responsible for or have caused to occur.
Dealing means coming to a complete conclusion, where you are done and moving forward in life, physically and spiritually (mind, will and emotions). Dealing with a situation eliminates excuses and brings personal responsibility to the forefront, some of which we do not desire to face.
Dealing with life’s trials and tribulations, our accountability now becomes the foundation for truth which then anchors integrity in our lives, giving us a clear view of a stable life. It opens the door for an appearance in humility, a repentant presence before God, with all our actions, praying for forgiveness under His Grace, if you are coping with life this is impossible as lies (rationalizations and justifications) cannot be in God’s presence.
So, in conclusion, the choice is yours to define if you’re going to Cope with life or face it head-on and Deal with the events which may present themselves. Meaning being honest with yourself for some will be a daunting task.
Those reading this article note: that even God recognizes Satan’s craftiness Genesis 3:1,3-4 KJV
Now the serpent was more subtle than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye, shall not eat of every tree of the garden?  But of the fruit of the tree, which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die.  And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
Why show this scenario? It reveals Satan’s open contempt for God as well as the naivety of the Ecclesia, to readily accept Satan’s subtle delusion based on justified and rationalized misinformation. Here, the dealing must and should come forward in many lives who have for decades lived in darkness, because they have justified and rationalized what Satan has planted that God is surely working with physicians.
Previously shared information becomes important as we found In https://romboughrobert.wordpress.com/2022/06/01/as-the-light-fades-our-faith-becomes-real-gods-grace-love-and-compassion-markedly-are-required-3/ that in the eyes of God man’s wisdom is enmity to Him.
1 Corinthians 3:19 KJV
For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness.
Remember Satan uses our ignorance of God ‘s Laws as an effective tool. As well his lies are subtle, appearing as truth but having a lie as part of it.
You have absorbed the Lie that God is working through these medical people and when faced with the result of your choice, you do not trust and believe in God’s promises because of your fear of death. Can you not discern you are suffering in separation because of your enmity, God’s wrath, as did the Israelites who believed in their minds, they were righteously worshipping God, murmured against Moses and Aaron, as you do against God when your prayers are not answered.
 How long shall I bear with this evil congregation, which murmur against me? I have heard the murmurings of the children of Israel, which they murmur against me. If it had not been for the pleadings of Moses and Aaron, God would have destroyed them all right there.
Exodus 32:10-11 KJV
Exodus 32:10-11 Now, therefore, let me alone, that my wrath may wax hot against them, and that I may consume them: and I will make of thee a great nation.  And Moses besought the Lord his God, and said, Lord, why doth thy wrath wax hot against thy people, which thou hast brought forth out of the land of Egypt with great power, and with a mighty hand?
In our society of today, it is easy to see how mankind has been manipulated to walk in a compromised normal, one skewed towards evil.
1 Corinthians 1:21 KJV
For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe
You walking as the Israelites did exiting Egypt! Ponder the following it is because Yeshua paid the ultimate price and is God’s doorway back to Him. That under His Grace you are not immediately destroyed.
However, so you know your erroneous ways a Watchman’s Trumpet has now been sounded. The choice now is yours, remove yourself from this delusion return to the flock repentantly and reap God’s forgiveness and blessings; or remain in the delusion and continue on the same path as the Israelites, slowly suffering His wrath to your ultimate demise and eternal future you have chosen. Numbers 14:29 KJV Your carcasses shall fall in this wilderness; and all that were numbered of you, according to your whole number, from twenty years old and upward, which have murmured against me. From here forward I say choose your path wisely, ponder what has been presented Ezekiel 33:9 Nevertheless if you warn the wicked of his way to turn from it; if he do not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul.
This is dealing with the truth, sometimes, we don’t want to hear or see. There is a serious consequence to Coping through life and many hard earned blessings when we are completely honest with ourselves, even if it stinks to high heaven at times; it does belong to us, until we have the Lord deal with it.
“May our Father in heaven and His Son Yeshua bless you with their Grace and Peace!”